4 or 5 intertwined questions, so I'll just post the first for now.
Initial 3 year old build: 2 x 410w on trailer roof, EpEver BN 4215 (40A) w/ MT50 monitor, single SOK 206, Samlex 600/1000 inverter.
Ran great for my intended use, lived in it all last summer away from home, on short notice...