Elon has has Zero input in SpaceX Rocket safety when it comes to manned craft or anything going to the ISS.
NASA dictates exactly what they need and they go through every design Aspect and test it to make sure it is safe for their Astronauts.
BTW the Soyuz has an excellent track record, it is simple and reliable and your statement is puzzling because both systems land with tiny capsules on Parachutes. I will take a Parachute any day of the week versus putting my faith in a heavily fueled craft making reentry and then depending on rocket engines firing to land safely. That was why NASA ditched that idea when SpaceX proposed it.
When left without oversight he gives you this. If you have young children this is worrying.