Disregard. I am an idiot. Upon further inspection of all the cables (as I got two BMS's for 2 packs). I discovered that the picture of the wire I posted above which is loose, is NOT the same one on the actual BMS, the BMS itself has another one of those wires with the male end on it. So dumb. Oh well lesson learned. Thanks for trying to help out, you can archive out this thread.
Newbie goodness!!