Looks like my neighborhood (present company excepted)
Fancy architectural rooflines, zero consideration of good areas for PV panels.
Except for your top left picture, which looks under-utilized.
The AC coupling advice seems like the route to follow at this point.
Is net metering available?
You can net meter/AC couple a large amount, maybe enough to cover 100% of load and let grid supply starting surge.
If you pay for turnkey installation at $3/W, that amortizes out to $0.025/kWh over 20 years (neglecting time value of money). Compare that to your utility rates.
You should have at least some part of the house and some A/C set as grid-backup with batteries, so you can be comfortable during power failures. Include all fridge/freezer on that circuit.
Each system has some limit on PV.
My SMA can do 24kW from batteries and AC couple 24kW of PV for grid-backup operation. While switched off grid, it can support 48kW PV (manual transfer switch, not feeding through its relays.)
SolArk supports maybe 18kW of DC coupled PV and up to same amount of AC coupled, so 36kW of PV on a single inverter. Should be able to double that with two.
Beyond that, you could have additional AC coupled PV straight to grid, not going through a grid-backup inverter.