I think anything is possible, but it has to be done with the individual's (or family's) choices and tradeoffs in mind. If you have a Caviar lifestyle, it won't be as easy.
What we noticed is that, when we went rural and off-grid, all service requirements plummeted, as in, we used less water, electricity, etc., as opposed to when we lived in the city, operating a typical city house (1800 sq ft.) We are a family of four, on an off-grid, mortgage-free (900 sq ft) homestead of 40 acres.
We use about 600 gallons of water per month, and about 150ah of battery capacity per day (very computer intensive, as I'm an old sysadmin type),
Solar easily makes up our power usage, even in most typical winter weather, but we also have propane for our site fuel as a fallback, and could easily generate our own way through the worst possible scenarios you could imagine, in the deep of winter, if we had to. We've never had to, in over 10 years of being off-grid.
Now, we are able to substitute many homestead options for all those services one has to pay for in the city. And, you have to pay through the nose for those services, as they do nothing but go up and up, and tack on all kinds of silly fees, regulations, and so on. It all just works, my kids can operate it, and it is all very possible these days.
If you are stuck in the city, you're just stuck, period. If you can escape the city, you have a chance.